Just this side of heaven is a place
called Rainbow Bridge.
When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet
goes to Rainbow Bridge.
There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and
play together.
There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and
comfortable.
All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor; those
who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember
them in our dreams of days and times gone by.
The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss
someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.
They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and
looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent; His eager body quivers.
Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs
carrying him faster and faster.
You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you
cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses
rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once
more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never
absent from your heart.
Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....
The Journey
by Crystal Ward Kent
When you bring a pet into your life, you
begin a journey - a journey that will bring you more love and devotion than you
have ever known, yet also test your strength and courage.
If you allow, the journey will teach you many things, about life, about
yourself, and most of all, about love. You will come away changed forever, for
one soul cannot touch another without leaving its mark. Along the way, you will
learn much about savoring life's simple pleasures - jumping in leaves, snoozing
in the sun, the joys of puddles, and even the satisfaction of a good scratch
behind the ears.
If you spend much time outside, you will be taught how to truly experience every
element, for no rock, leaf, or log will go unexamined, no rustling bush will be
overlooked, and even the very air will be inhaled, pondered, and noted as being
full of valuable information. Your pace may be slower - except when heading home
to the food dish - but you will become a better naturalist, having been taught
by an expert in the field.
Too many times we hike on automatic pilot, our goal being to complete the trail
rather than enjoy the journey. We miss the details - the colorful mushrooms on
the rotting log, the honeycomb in the old maple snag, the hawk feather caught on
a twig. Once we walk as a dog does, we see a whole new world. We stop; we browse
the landscape, we kick over leaves, peek in tree holes, look up, down, all
around. And we learn what any dog knows: that nature has created a marvelously
complex world that is full of surprises, that each cycle of the seasons bring
ever changing wonders, each day an essence all its own.
Even from indoors you will find yourself more attuned to the world around you.
You will find yourself watching summer insects collecting on a screen. (How
bizarre they are! How many kinds there are!), or noting the flick and flash of
fireflies through the dark. You will stop to observe the swirling dance of
windblown leaves, or sniff the air after a rain. It does not matter that there
is no objective in this; the point is in the doing, in not letting life's most
important details slip by.
You will find yourself doing silly things that your pet-less friends might not
understand: spending thirty minutes in the grocery aisle looking for the cat
food brand your feline must have, buying dog birthday treats, or driving around
the block an extra time because your pet enjoys the ride. You will roll in the
snow, wrestle with chewie toys, bounce little rubber balls till your eyes cross,
and even run around the house trailing your bathrobe tie - with a cat in hot
pursuit - all in the name of love.
Your house will become muddier and hairier. You will wear less dark clothing and
buy more lint rollers. You may find dog biscuits in your pocket or purse, and
feel the need to explain that an old plastic shopping bag adorns your living
room rug because your cat loves the crinkly sound.
You will learn the true measure of love - the steadfast, undying kind that says,
"It doesn't matter where we are or what we do, or how life treats us as long as
we are together." Respect this always. It is the most precious gift any living
soul can give another. You will not find it often among the human race.
And you will learn humility. The look in my dog's eyes often made me feel
ashamed. Such joy and love at my presence. She saw not some flawed human who
could be cross and stubborn, moody or rude, but only her wonderful companion. Or
maybe she saw those things and dismissed them as mere human foibles, not worth
considering, and so chose to love me anyway.
If you pay attention and learn well, when the journey is done, you will be not
just a better person, but the person your pet always knew you to be - the one
they were proud to call beloved friend.
I must caution you that this journey is not without pain. Like all paths of true
love, the pain is part of loving. For as surely as the sunsets, one day your
dear animal companion will follow a trail you cannot yet go down.
And you will have to find the strength and love to let them go. A pet's time on
earth is far too short - especially for those that love them. We borrow them,
really, just for a while, and during these brief years they are generous enough
to give us all their love, every inch of their spirit and heart, until one day
there is nothing left.
The cat that only yesterday was a kitten is all too soon old and frail and
sleeping in the sun. The young pup of boundless energy wakes up stiff and lame,
the muzzle now gray. Deep down we somehow always knew that journey would end. We
knew that if we gave our hearts they would be broken.
But give them we must for it is all they ask in return. When the time comes, and
the road curves ahead to a place we cannot see, we give one final gift and let
them run on ahead - young and whole once more. "Godspeed, good friend," we say,
until our journey comes full circle and our paths cross again.
